Is sex really that big of a deal?

cheerfulgreek · #1 03-17-2007, 12:14 AM

AKA Monet, you know so much. You're good

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I sat out of college for a year and through the 5 years I've completed I'm finally graduating this year

. Throughout college I slept with one guy. My X who turned out to be a jerk. He new I was a virgin and he treated me like a queen until one thing led to another. After that he started acting like a jerk, then he cheated on me. I was so hurt. I dated other guys but I wasn't intimate with them. At the time I wanted my X back. He kept wanting to get back together, and I did everytime, thinking he would change, but he didn't. He only would want me back whenever he had a problem with semen back-up

, if you girls know what I mean. He wants to get back again now, but I'm not going to do it again. I think sex is great but only with a guy who really cares for me and loves me. Don't give in if you don't think it's right, remember guys will use you. They're such pigs, well at least most of them are. Make sure he's caring, loving and of course attractive to you. Sometimes it's hard to to tell, but you'll know. Make him wait a long long time and see how long he sticks around. If he bails, then he's a pig. Well, then again I made my X wait a year. He waited, but I heard that he had other girls on the side without me knowing about it. He such an ass. Well good luck!! Keep us posted.

tld221 · #2 03-17-2007, 12:29 AM

for a minute i thought cheerfulgreek = christiangirl. anyone else?

James · #3 03-17-2007, 12:58 AM

They are not the same?

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for a minute i thought cheerfulgreek = christiangirl. anyone else?

PrettyBoy · #4 03-17-2007, 01:45 AM

I don't think it's a big deal at the beginning. Now, eventually I'm gonna be ready to get busy with her, but for the most part, I gotta know the girl for a while before I'm intimate with her. She has to be the one. I've always been a one woman man, so I've never been down with sleeping around with a lot of women, that's why I wouldn't get involved with a woman who has slept with a lot of guys. I didn't and don't sleep around, so I don't think I should be with someone who has. Christiangirl if I were you, I would wait until you either get married or find the right guy. It really is no way to know if you'll get it right the 1st time, that's the risk you'll have to take. Men/women now a days are a trip. People just aren't into long term courting and marriage like they were 50 years ago. It's all about who can I take home from the club tonight, or how can I brag about taking a woman's virginity. Hold out as long as you can. Good luck.

cheerfulgreek · #5 03-17-2007, 10:08 AM

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I don't think it's a big deal at the beginning. Now, eventually I'm gonna be ready to get busy with her, but for the most part, I gotta know the girl for a while before I'm intimate with her. She has to be the one. I've always been a one woman man, so I've never been down with sleeping around with a lot of women, that's why I wouldn't get involved with a woman who has slept with a lot of guys. I didn't and don't sleep around, so I don't think I should be with someone who has. Christiangirl if I were you, I would wait until you either get married or find the right guy. It really is no way to know if you'll get it right the 1st time, that's the risk you'll have to take. Men/women now a days are a trip. People just aren't into long term courting and marriage like they were 50 years ago. It's all about who can I take home from the club tonight, or how can I brag about taking a woman's virginity. Hold out as long as you can. Good luck.

O.K. I have to ask you a question, and I'm not trying to be sarcastic in anyway, so don't take offense to it. Just answer the question. If you're this faithful one woman guy

, why are you single? According to some of your past post you're single, unless you've gotten into a relationship since then. I'm asking because I can't see why you would be single if you're this one woman "cute" guy that you call yourself. I'm just really curious. How long would you have to know the girl before you're intimate with her?

AlphaFrog · #6 03-17-2007, 01:10 PM

I just want to say that "everything BUT sex" 'virgins' (especially for faith reasons) annoy me.

If you're doing everything but so you remain chaste - you are missing the point. (Hey, what'd ya know - I actually learned something in my Catholic HS education)

PrettyBoy · #7 03-17-2007, 11:52 PM

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O.K. I have to ask you a question, and I'm not trying to be sarcastic in anyway, so don't take offense to it. Just answer the question. If you're this faithful one woman guy

, why are you single? According to some of your past post you're single, unless you've gotten into a relationship since then. I'm asking because I can't see why you would be single if you're this one woman "cute" guy that you call yourself. I'm just really curious. How long would you have to know the girl before you're intimate with her?

To answer your question, I'm single because there are very little requirements for getting a decent woman, but a lot to keep her. Two of them I do not have and that's time and money. School is my 1st priority right now.

christiangirl · #8 03-18-2007, 03:07 AM

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I am willing to bet that you will be married in your mid-20's because some guy will figure out that if he wants you, he has to marry you.

The sad part is that he marries you, and he is unwilling to "share" his enjoyment and experience with you just so he can taste your "wine"... And then he leaves you because you may not be into the "learning curve" and don't want to play "catch up". Or, the first time, your lucky, your are pregnant and don't feel like having sex during your pregnancy... Then what does he do?

Wow....I had such a wonderful future and I became the sex-witholding single mother. Monet, what happened to me????? lol

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School is my 1st priority right now.

After carefully examining every post you've made in my general presence over the last day or so, I have come to a decision. Congratulations. I WANT YOU.

cheerfulgreek · #9 03-19-2007, 12:49 AM

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To answer your question, I'm single because there are very little requirements for getting a decent woman, but a lot to keep her. Two of them I do not have and that's time and money. School is my 1st priority right now.

O KAAAAAAAAAAY. What are you studying?

Hey, do you know anything about the Roseville area? When I graduate this year, I wanted to look for an apartment out there. I'm going to be attending grad school here, so I thought Roseville looked like a nice area. What do you know?