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Originally Posted by 33girl
First off, in "accessories", the girl she's referring to and that pledge class went through in the fall and are already initiated. They will NOT be her pledgesisters - I don't know where that assumption came from. And if they were - so what? There's no rule that you have to do everything with the girls you pledge with the whole time you're active. If there was, I most certainly would have quit after a semester.
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This makes no sense to me. Ok they wouldn't be her technical pledge class, what I meant is that she will be spending 4 more years with these girls. In my chapter even when we had girls pledge as sophomores they still generally associated with the class of their graduating year. But why in the world would you join an organization where you didn't like the girls and didn't want to be around them? You're saying she can join but then not hang out with them... So what's the point of joining? Obviously you don't have to spend every waking moment with them but I'd hope you would at least enjoy being around them! It seems like her joining this group would just be asking for drama.
Pinkbabygirl- sorry this turned into a debate! Since you're the only one who knows the exact details just follow your heart and if you don't think a chapter is right for you don't feel guilty about not going to their event. But if you think this house could grow on you then definitely give them another chance! Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
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