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Originally Posted by PinkBabygirl10
Hello GCers,
LIPSTICK = My top choice. I absolutely love them! I went to their Pref. Night in the fall, but I was obviously not extended a bid. I really liked all the girls I talked to. Conversation came very easy, they're very fun girls to hang out with, and they're a lot like my friends from home. I would love to get extended a bid from them this time around. However, I understand that I may not. And that's okay. I am looking forward to seeing the other groups, and I know my feelings and rankings may change.
EYELINER = This group was not one of my favorites in the fall. There wasn't anything that really stood out about them to me. I felt a little uncomfortable at their parties. But on the last night (before preference), I really liked the girl who rushed me. She introduced me to a lot of girls, and she was really friendly. Again, this group has a bunch of different types of girls. I was surprisingly invited to their Pref. Night, and I went. However, since I was so in love with LIPSTICK (especially after going to their Pref. Night), I didn't list EYELINER on my preference card. I suicided LIPSTICK. (At the time, I didn't know the disadvantages of suiciding. My Rho Chi never told me it was a bad thing to do until after I did it.) After a semester of observing EYELINER and seeing the types of girls in it and what they do, I like them more than I did in the fall. I regret not listing them on my preference card, and I always am thinking "what if." And I think I would fit in fine there. I am just nervous to go to their parties this spring because they might wonder why. I am just going to go, and let them make their decision if they don't want me to return. I can just hope for the best!
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Maybe I am reading too much into this but if you went to pref for both and they are both doing informal, they probably don't feel you are a good fit for their chapter. If both are doing informal, they had empty spots up to total that they could have given you a snap bid or COB'd you right after formal to get you. I may be wrong but if I am right, I would certainly give all groups incl the small one a try (skip the hazing group).
Good luck, keep an open mind and don't let the groups know how you feel about the other chapter!
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