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Originally Posted by jessicaelaine
no kidding, thats why i posted this. because i need advice about giving advice. i can't exactly offer comforting words to a girl i don't like. and looking at how the votes went for her, neither will many other girls in my sorority. am i supposed to tell her "well, you cheated on your boyfriend with the boyfriend of one of our sisters who then broke up with that sister for you. you're also fake and hyprocritcal and change your personality and opinion depending on who you talk to." i'm telling you i know for sure this girl is going to approch one of us, so not telling her anything is not an option. thanks for your help.
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Just tell her:
"I'm sorry, but our membership selection process is confidential. We aren't allowed to discuss why someone was chosen or not chosen with anyone, even with those new members who DID receive bids."
That's all anyone EVER needs to hear about why they were chosen or not chosen. Period.
Oh, and to everyone who's saying "make the Rho Chi do it" I think the OP's Greek system is relatively small and doesn't have formal rush/Rho Chis.
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