Negotiation vs. Settling

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by valkyrie

I would pay GOOD MONEY to see this. And participate.

Just hope you keep up... Try out-drinking Ouzo with a Cajun... That's a hard feat... Boy, did my stomach have it's revenge on me the next day, not to mention my head...

And let's not talk about "thangs" I did in high school--some um, 28957980 years ago... I must have given one of my best "Christian Values" speeches after my Senior Prom... I'll just say I experimented with some "stuh"... I was a stoopid kid.

[CarolinaCutie]

You know, AKA Monet, that was probably one of the most helpful chain-forward type things I've ever read. Too much time wasted with men who will never love me or treat me the way I deserve to be treated...

In a way, I think a general "list" is good to have. Not specifics like "must be 6ft 2 with brown hair", but knowing what is a total dealbreaker for you is important. I've had issues in the past with letting surface things like physical attraction or the ability to have a good time and laugh with a person affect my emotional attachment too much... and you can save yourself a lot of heartache by not falling in love with someone who you knew wasn't right for you from Day One.