men make me sad

[laylo]

I'm sorry you've dealt with dishonesty and cheating. But I'm disturbed by the listing of "I don't talk too much" and your body type as reasons to consider yourself a good catch. Do you think men are looking for women who are seen and not heard? Beause if you try to play that role, you will continue to be used and walked all over. Why don't you try becoming the best woman you can be for YOURSELF--confidence and purpose will attract the "decent" men.

[Scandia]

Do you think men are looking for women who are seen and not heard?

Sadly, I have met men who seem to be like that. Even though they do not say sexist things explicitly, if they constantly compliment your looks while their main criticisms of you all have to do with the way you talk (loudness, interruptions, directness, big words), who knows if they are looking for some subservient little damsel who is seen and not heard indeed.

[AlexMack]

A/S/L, cup size and pics plz! Only then can I tell you if you're worthwhile.

[AKA_Monet]

Christin,

Seek professional help. You are only 18 years old. Not all of us are in your age group. A few of us are LCSW. You need help.

GC Hospital Chief of Medicine
Dr. AKA_Monet