WTF she joined my sorority?!

[33girl]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

We had an advisor in my college chapter that was a Kappa Alpha Order, and he stated many times that most KA Orders are "one ball chapters"...meaning one "no" vote, and you don't get a bid.

That's what he wanted you to think. LOL. Sorry, but that one was too easy.

[TSteven]

Originally Posted by irishpipes

And, very uncool to be so indiscreet about membership selection and voting. Obviously I am not an IFC member nor am I a Sigma Pi, so I don't know if that is considered ritual or not, but it seems improper.

Sorry to be such a downer.

Just curious. GLOs have the prerogative to make this known. So why shouldn't they be up front with this type information? Other than the usual "membership selection is ritual, should not be public, blah blah blah", why would this be uncool and improper?

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by TSteven

Just curious. GLOs have the prerogative to make this known. So why shouldn't they be up front with this type information? Other than the usual "membership selection is ritual, should not be public, blah blah blah", why would this be uncool and improper?

It's not uncool or improper. Many fraternities have this information in their Constitutions, By-Laws, General Regulations or the like, which they make available on-line. We've had the discussion here before -- it seems to be one of the cultural differences between (NPC) sororities and (NIC and some non-NIC) fraternities.

[AXO Alum]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

It's not uncool or improper. Many fraternities have this information in their Constitutions, By-Laws, General Regulations or the like, which they make available on-line. We've had the discussion here before -- it seems to be one of the cultural differences between (NPC) sororities and (NIC and some non-NIC) fraternities.

Maybe that's the difference because I am that I have read so many details about what other NPC chapters do for "no recs" or whatever they have called them. I think this has drifted over into details of MS for some people that are posting. Sounds like the OP needs to have a PM discussion with texas*princess, honeychile, and/or adpiucf & let this thread be gone in GL. Maybe head over to D&R and ask the question about who's more to "blame" the "cheater" or the "cheatee" -- that sounds like a better topic for people to debate

[WVU alpha phi]

I really don't see what the big deal is. There is an Alpha Phi at another school who I realllllly dislike but I never would've thought of putting in a bad word about her to her chapter. As long as the girl isn't in my chapter, I wouldn't have a problem with it.

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by 33girl

That's what he wanted you to think. LOL. Sorry, but that one was too easy.

some chapters at my school were like that, a lot were actually