Look at it this way....you don't have 48 hours to accept or decline a bid during formal recruitment. You do have that luxury in informal.
Life doesn't offer guarantees. There is no guarantee that attending the university you chose to attend is the absolute best choice for you. There is no guarantee that the major you choose will enable you to have a successful career. There is no guarantee that you will love what you do for a living. There is no guarantee that you will get married. There is no guarantee that if you get married you will have a successful marriage. I could go on and on, but you get my drift.
Accept the bid to the sorority you like or don't. Membership in a sorority is like life itself- it is what you make of it.
They gave you 48 hours to make up your mind. They could have demanded a decision right then, but they want you to join, so they gave you time to think things over. Use that time wisely, but don't overthink it. You can drive yourself crazy.
__________________
I live in Fantasyland and I have waterfront property.
Last edited by FSUZeta; 01-24-2015 at 09:06 PM.
|