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Originally Posted by sweetheart272
thank you for this post. it's good to know that i'm not the only one in the world who's had this struggle, lol.
those first stories sounded very similar to mine, but unfortunately there wasn't an advisor in my case.
i feel like the reason i'm making such a fuss about this and having a hard time accepting accusations and consequences is mostly because of that.
had all the proceedings of my discipline followed procedure properly, been supervised by an expert/unbiased party like an advisor, and i had been explained what the issues were with valid evidence and adequate detail, it'd still suck to be in trouble, but i'd accept it because i felt like i deserved it since the policies were followed and i got punished, fair and square.
i guess its too hard for me to swallow my pride and be like "yup i was guilty of everything, totally responsible, they're totally right" when i know for a fact my case was misrepresented and included accusations of things i didn't do.
if i was guilty of something, i'd take the blame. but when you don't agree your guilty, it's hard not to fight back
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No.
Just, no. You still don't get it. Now you're contradicting yourself all over the place.
Woke up this morning with a huge knot on my forehead. Realized it came from beating my head against the brick wall that is sweetheart272.
#stickaforkinmeI'mdone
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