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Originally Posted by phialum
And for sure, she did not have rec to one of them
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Originally Posted by phialum
AZTheta - because I connected her with an alumna for every rec she received and she did not have a rec for one house.
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Originally Posted by AZTheta
You are discounting the fact that the chapter could have solicited a rec for her because they are interested in her!
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In addition, you have no idea if one of her teachers, neighbors, alumnae organization or any other connection submitted one on her behalf. I am very involved in my local alumnae panhellenic, as well as my own organization's alumnae rec board, and I can say with 100% certainty that there are plenty of recs written each summer on behalf of PNMs who have no idea that the rec is being submitted.
Teachers, especially, are quite sneaky with this endeavor. They have first hand knowledge of scores of PNMs and can quite easily pound out a ton of recs with PNMs none the wiser.
(**as stated above- this should NEVER be an assumption by PNMs that the chapter, alumnae, or alumnae panhellenics will go to these lengths. PNMs should always secure a personal rec to each and every chapter.)