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Originally Posted by anna7363
They are my friends and disgruntled members had more loyalty to me then to you guys. Whether thats because you had treated them like garbage so they vented to me drunk at a party. Bitching about what terrible people you all are. Or they are good friends who trust me intimately and aren't going to bail on me just cause they got into a sorority.
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I would hope that your friends would have more loyalty to you than to people that they have never met on the internet who happen to be fellow sorority members, also.
Thank you for being honest about your situation. I hate that this has happened to you. It sounds to me that you not only had the transgender issue to deal with insofar as getting a bid but also your upperclassman status to overcome.
It is TOUGH for seniors to get a bid, even in informal recruitment, even when they are perfect. The fact of the matter is that sororities usually want to give bids to women who are going to be around for a while. Getting rejected from something that you want hurts.