Transgender women in sorority life?

[anna7363]

Well I never planned on tell you I am trans. I got outed by some random person whose behavior frankly feels stalkerish. She called me out by name in a private message (how she knows who I am is beyond me). I guess the hardest part about this all is that while you are right. Transgender people will have it better in 20 years from now. The reality is I'm still quite bitter about it. I will have been denied so many opportunities in life. It feels like as trans you need to be perfect in order to be adequate even in just normal social situations like church.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by anna7363

Well I never planned on tell you I am trans. I got outed by some random person whose behavior frankly feels stalkerish. She called me out by name in a private message (how she knows who I am is beyond me). I guess the hardest part about this all is that while you are right. Transgender people will have it better in 20 years from now. The reality is I'm still quite bitter about it. I will have been denied so many opportunities in life. It feels like as trans you need to be perfect in order to be adequate even in just normal social situations like church.

It sucks. At least you're making it better for the people who come after you. You're not hiding and you're not closeted and the people who come after you will owe you a huge debt of thanks because by refusing to hide, you're opening the way for them.