I understand what you're saying. Just try to chill. Your anxiety does you no favors. If you have friends in fraternities who are real friends, not just a guy you know from class, then you just have to be your warm welcoming self and they'll see that. Authenticity is the key! Don't be a douche or what you think they want you to be. If you're good enough to have real friends then you're good enough. That's not to say you WILL get a bid, but no amount of second guessing what you say, how to dress, whatever, is going to guarantee it either. They're choosing FRIENDS first and foremost. Try to not think about it beyond that.
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