Question for Rec Writers from a Rec Writer
Hi -- like a lot of you, I do recs every year for girls going through Panhellenic recruitment; 2011 was my biggest group so far, and almost every PNM went through a huge, mega- competitive recruitment at an SEC school. Everyone received bids and pledged.
I recently found out that one of my 2011 rec girls depledged right before her initiation. I also found out that her recruitment was very difficult, full of disappointments because she was dropped by all of her favorites. The sorority she did pledge was the only pref she was invited to.
She has decided to go through recruitment again Fall 2012 at the same SEC school, and is planning to ask her rec-writers from last year to provide them again. Have any of you done this before -- written two recs for the same girl at the same university?
If you were asked, and decided to do so, did you do anything differently the second time, or did you just provide the rec like normal? I already know my sorority cut her last year. Given how big her university is and the number of PNM's last year, I also wonder if the sororities will be aware that she depledged elsewhere. Do I need to acknowledge it in the rec?
Sorry if these questions sound clueless, but this has never come down my path before. Thanks
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