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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito
Ultimately the choice is yours. However consider this. You have given a pretty big list of cons if you stay, but can you build any kind of list of pros? If not, your choice should be pretty clear.
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You are right, I have listed many cons and I am fully aware of this. Though, all throughout my pledgeship I have coercively persuaded myself to stay with the fraternity with ideas which have included:
• If i just make it through this semester I'll be done cleaning/ pledging and I will have free time which will be awesome. (a large motivator)
• The ability to party in a safe* environment. (*Rule free)
• The ability to get alcohol from a brother when I find an occasion calls for it.
• The "promise" of meeting and developing friendships/etc. with women as a house. (We haven't had a real social event since October.)
• Being able to call 30+ other pledge brothers your friend.
• Having a place to live next semester.
• Living with my pledge brothers.
I guess what I'm asking is if it's okay that I depledge after an entire semester if I have just now realized my heart is not 100% devoted to this place. Is it absolutely horrible that I have just now come to this conclusion?
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