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Originally Posted by Coolguy
Yeah that was the case. I asked her to go upstairs, but she said no and I didn't push it any further. She then dialed her number into my cell phone after I said that she shouldn't because she was way drunk (after I realized this girl was shitfaced). As far as representing the fraternity in a positive light, I don't know what their standards are. A pledge was charged with aggravated assault and battery, sent to jail, and it's seen as something hilarious.
Odd thing is that the Pledge ED said I can still party and hang with them whenever I wanted (excluding exchanges/formals). Maybe he's just being nice. It is devastating, but at least I can put my focus into other things.
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The decision to kick someone out isn't usually taken lightly. The chapter probably discussed the entire situation. No one knows what happened that night except you and the girl. She isn't here to tell her side of the story here, so who knows what actually happened. Plus you were both drunk. If the girl felt threatened by you, I would definitely apologize to her, just for your own sake.
If everything happened the exact way you said it happened, I find it pretty hard to believe you would get kicked out for not being outgoing (though to go to mixers/parties and get wasted and make out with a girl on some levels is being outgoing) and getting rejected by a drunk girl. Did you go to fraternity events? Were you hanging out with the brothers? Were you meeting all the education standards? Did you actually fit in with the guys?
I'm going to go with they're just being nice about hanging out with you.
I admit that I've told people, who we didn't extend bids to, that we would still hang out and I have no idea how they didn't get a bid. When in reality, the guy was a huge asshole and I had no plans on ever hanging out with him again because I just didn't want to deal with the drama that would inevitably occur.
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