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Originally Posted by carnation
Most PNMs would fit into most of them, that's my point. But when someone spouts that line to a PNM who's just been cut from 12 out of 18 sororities at a competitive school after second parties, it doesn't ring true. Especially if she's in-state and in the know, she's aware that in a sorority of around 200 women, there are plenty whom she'd fit in with--and she probably already knows a bunch of them. She doesn't want or need to hear that crap about 'fits'.
I can see how at a medium or small-sized school, sororities would have "personalities" and people would clearly be able to see where they fit. That used to be true even at the big SEC schools. But...no more. Not with the massive pledge classes they have.
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It's like any sort of "sympathy" statement. Sometimes it's true and sometimes it's just the speakers best attempt to make the girl feel better. Particularly since if she's in the know she knows that 6 is still good and her recruitment is far from over.
I guess I'm not sure what else you're going to say. You can state fact: You have 6 left and that's really good. Sympathy: I'm sorry that sucks, I'm sure you'll still find your home. or overreaction: They're all bitches, you don't need to be with them anyway. For some girls one or the other of the first two will work, and the 'adult' shouldn't be encouraging the latter.
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