DD needs advice - Texas A&M pref tonight...
Good morning.
Tonight is pref night at Texas A&M. DD had five parties yesterday for skit day. She had been cut from 2 of her 3 top favorites, but still had a great time. She still had 1 that she really loves, and is hoping for, 1 that runs a pretty close second, 1 that she feels ok about and 2 that she doesn't feel are a good fit for her for several reasons. She doesn't yet know which she will be invited back to for pref. I think they find out around 4:00 pm.
The matter that she would like advice about is this: Is it ok at this point, if she is lucky enough to be invited to her favorite, to express to them how much she likes them and is hoping to join them? I have told her all week to keep an open mind, etc. but should she be more enthusiastic to her favorite and more reserved at the houses she doesn't wish to join? In other words, how can she maximize her chances of getting her first choice?
Thanks for any advice.
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