But let's get this straight when you get a post like this:
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The reason for this discussion is because, I have a cousin who just got out of prison for rape and sexual abuse to a minor. Now although he's family, I don't trust him around my grandson or children. I do worry when he wants to come and spend the night the night at my house. Should I worry about that or give him a second chance? Now let me say this, he's spent most of his life in prison.
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MY PROBLEM THAT I HAVE IS THE RESPONSE CAN
NEVER BE THIS!!!
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This is why the parents must make sure that their kids are raised up knowing their place. Some parents raised their children to think she's so cute. Allowing the child to sit up on strangers lap or kiss on strangers or even relatives. You see what some female children will do will sit up on people laps and twist all around in their laps. What they are doing is arousing the individual. But when something happens the law never take into account of what was happening that led to this sort of behavior.
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And they are telling me I am not "saved" or a "Christian"....
I am sorry, but I am incapable for forgiving this mentality and if I have to go the Hell because it, then well, I am fine with that. I do not believe a God in Heaven can justify the ugly criminal behavior toward a child over a baby who just is inquisitive and the onus on the parents to discipline misconstrued "on-comings" by older youths or adults.
I do not care how much forgiveness God asks me to do for a felon. But that does NOT mean I have to interact on any level with that person beyond "hello" and "goodbye". I am not interested in placating. I am not interested in if it was a a family member of mine, giving unconditional love. When you violate a child like that, you now have conditions for my love... There is ZERO TOLERANCE, ZERO EXCUSE!!!
Now I have a response I gave to those comments made by this individual and they are harsh. But I speak for my Queens and Goddesses who have entrusted me to protect them so that they can heal from this horrid pain they endured at tiny babes. And I also speak for the millions of women who have been sexual violated. The fact is we all know this is about "power" not about sex, but the ability to express intimacy through sexual contact has been severely disrupted if not destroyed. And to merely reduce it to, parents need to control their arousing kids and I have to step around with intrepidity...
Well then... Blessed Are The Meek...
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