Question for parents, parents to be, and parent want to be's.....

[Tippiechick]

Seriously? There's rehab for druggies. And, I've known plenty of productive professionals who smoke/smoked pot. They are the least of my worries. Hell, even coke-heads get things done. Meth, now that's a screwed up drug for white-trashies.

The worst things I could find out?

1) My child is dying or has died-- period.
2) My child has been abducted, tortured, and sexually abused before being killed in a violent, long, painful death.
3) My child is a murderer/psycho/serial killer...

I think for most parents, our main fears involve forces we have no control over. One of my sorority sisters has a child with a rare, genetic disease. It's terminal and takes the life of the child between ages 8-12. The child goes blind, loses control of their body, and slowly dies. THAT scares me. I just hug Max every time I think about it.