Perhaps the competition for Big/Lil is a bit fierce this year... I know in my chapter, that was definitely the case, and people did get irritated with the "stalking" that went on. We ended up in a situation where many of the new girls asked for the same Bigs, and many of the actives wanted the same Littles, so it was tough to match them up.
Still, if you're not doing anything blatantly illegal, there is no other reason to be mad at you for befriending the new pledge class except jealousy. Maybe back off just a bit, focus on ONE new girl instead of domineering the entire PC, OR, include more active sisters in your plans with the new girls.
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