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Originally Posted by 33girl
The problem is that the OP is apparently the only one who wants things to change - including the advisor.
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DING DING DING - WE HAVE A WINNER!!!!
However I feel like that impression of me being the only one wanting change makes it seem like the changes i want are just a personal opinion of mine on how things should be run, but there not. Its that I want to follow the constitution because my org has been around for a very long time and i genuinly trust that things they prohibit in the constitution are prohibited for a reason. And also its more that im the only one willing to be vocal about changing, instead of sitting by and letting the few girls who kind of "rule" my sorority take over and run it into the ground.
Basically what i want to say to them is your in a national org it has national rules and a national governing body that we have to follow and abide by. You knew this joining, and if you dont wish to follow nationals rules then a national org is NOT the place for you. Go start a local club where you can run it however you want.
P.S. To address confused girl you are not alone with your mental health issues however blaming other people for them be it your sorority parents professor spouse or friends does NOTHING to help your situation. Yes maybe the soroity contributed to your stress or unhappiness but you had the problem before the sorority and if you dont deal with the true root of the problems you will have them again after the sorority.
A very wise mentor of mine always used to tell me "Wherever you go, There you are" and it took me a very long time to fully understand and accept how true that statement
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