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Originally Posted by christiangirl
Lol, this is exactly why I'd like to go this route. 
Ok, seriously, my sister did it this way. Her husband was being relocated so they got married before they moved. A year later, they had a "vow renewal." They had bachelor/bachelorette parties for that, but no bridal shower. I have another military friend who just did this and she stressed over what to call it, too. *FYI: yes, according to dictionary.com, the year later thing does still qualify as a "wedding"* Both couples went on honeymoons after because they didn't get them the first time. No one complained about coming to either ceremony (at least I never heard any complaints) and no one griped about my sister having a bachlorette party even though she was already married--it was basically just a giant slumber party anyway, not much shenanigans. I can't speak for him, though.  You'll be married and happy and getting what you want in this uber important phase in your life. Sounds like a good deal to me! |
Thanks! I like this way of thinking! I really don't want it to be a big deal (until next year anyway)and I'm happy with having both but I'm agonizing over the little details while J only sees the big picture (we compliment each other so well!) I really appreciate all the suggestions
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