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Which do you want more... a "marriage" starting this September, or a "wedding" next September.
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I think that's the perfect way to put it. Sometimes in life things don't turn out exactly how we dreamed, or we have to make choices that change those dreams.
Do you want a happy marriage that will last the rest of your life? Or is it more important to have one big day where you're the center of attention and get presents? And the wedding isn't just about the bride, its about BOTH people, and their families.
If you want to get married then have a reception to celebrate your vows, have your marriage blessed by a priest or whatever religious figure, etc. down the road, at least be honest about it. But whatever it is, it just is not the BWW that you want to have here. But the marriage is what counts, right?