Thank You Notes

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Originally Posted by WinniBug

I have a friend who's gotten married and had a baby....
We went to a "Stock the Bar" bridal shower, I got her a wedding gift, got her a baby shower gift, and another gift when the baby was born....and no written thank-you
:-(

I have a related question....if you're invited to a shower and the wedding, do you split your gifts between the two events, or do you give at the shower and be done with it?

Your friend should have sent you four thank-you notes: bridal shower, wedding, baby shower, baby gift.

If you're invited to a bridal shower and the wedding, that calls for two separate gifts (and two thank-you cards). Around here, the gifts are usually an item from the registry for the shower, and a check for the wedding.