Before adding PNMs on Facebook became taboo [aka when I rushed], sister from ABC sorority added me right away after their first party. I thought it was desperate and creepy. Ladies, show that you're interested, but don't stalk the PNMs.
And dearest PNMs, let me tell you a tale. Once upon a time, I was an
affliliated Rho Chi [informal recruitment]. I was waiting for the second group of girls to arrive for their preference ceremony with TPA, when one girl and her friend were talking to me. And I quote, "I just came from ABC. It was awesome, I really like them. I don't really like TPA, they kinda suck. But I'm just going so people don't think that I'm a loser and only got one pref."
One more time, I was an
affiliated Rho Chi. Yeah. End of that story.
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