Bigs
I don't really remember why or how, but I was the one who matched bigs and littles in my sorority. Gosh after readng this, I hope I did an ok job. What I do remember is that a vast majority of new members requested the same active to be their big. Usually this wasn't necessarily the most active member. It would be more honest to say the most requested big was the best rusher or best sales person which is also undeniably a valuable talent and art. I remember keeping party girls together and Bible study girls together and hoped for the best. There was a semi bid matching process, but it wasn't balanced. We matched bigs after about a month and had pledge classes and quotas of about 31ish. Larger chapters would be tough. I think I'm pretty good at matching people up and have fixed up many a married couple.
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