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Originally Posted by AZMOM
It's those who don't or didn't ask that live w/the most regret. I speak from experience. I've always taught my children ask a lot of ???'s before making a decision and always find out the good as well as the bad. You save yourself so much pain by being informed as opposed to being uninformed.
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It is good to ask questions before joining a sorority, but in my opinion, an online forum is not the best place to do so. Your daughter should be speaking with current ASU students who are active members of various chapters (as well as alumnae). She should also consult the Greek Life Office if she has questions about membership in general. The internet is not going to give her the information she truly needs, especially if everyone on GreekChat were to chime in with their own opinions, gossip, etc. about the various ASU chapters (which as you know, isn't going to happen).
I can type on GC until my fingers are cramped about how great my sisterhood is, but unless you come and visit with members of my organization (actives and alumnae), and participate in our events and service projects that are open to all, you are not going to get a true sense of whether my organization is for you. This is why I say that your daughter should meet sorority members in person.
Further, every chapter is going to have "good" and "bad" sides to it. What matters is what is best for your daughter. Only she can make this decision. I think it's great that you are supportive of your daughter joining a sorority, so please continue to encourage her to seek out actual actives and alumnae in her area of the various organizations to help her with her decision-making process. Best of luck!
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