Thanks for the responses everyone, I think.
I guess I wasn't that clear in the original post, as I didn't want to get to detailed. Especially now that I found out a fellow chapter member is on this board. (:-P to you!)
I'm not trying to be superficial in the slightest. I'm not the skinniest person in the world nor do I dress in the newest designer labels. These are girls who flat out never care how they present themselves, or at least don't seem to. Neither of them have a weight issue or other physical problem that I know of. Even our leadership consultant pointed out that these are "oops" members and they may affect our chances of strong recruitment. These women now are voting against PNMs that are "too good for us" in their terms, as if they are intimidated by anyone who cares how they look.
I love the ideas that were PM'ed to me, and think that they would absolutly benefit everyone, not just the women in question.
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