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Originally Posted by Animate
I agree but I don't think PB was talking in a sense of marriage. Moreso in a pre-marital relationship. I learned early that the whole "breaks" thing wouldn't work most of the time. My ex tried that and I simply responded "What for?". If you want to be in the relationship don't run away from it. Chances are if you have to think twice then the decision has already been made.
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Well, I should let PB speak for himself as I know he can... The thing is, how you are in a
SERIOUS unmarried relationship dictates how you will probably be in a marital relationship. So, say you have a "steady girl/boy-friend", if you are gallivanting around hangin' in the homeys and the boys, then it is more likely you will do it when you are married. Now, it should be the partner's choice if that is "okay" with him/her to allow you to hang out in bars to be wannabe Stars and VIP. But if it is not "okay"--and with most young people it isn't, then that means someone is more secure with themselves while being in the relationship...
All, I am saying is if someone needs a "temporary break" to sort things out, just like a bird, you have to let them free. Nothing is going to stop that person from NOT being there. However, when your married, that brings a whole new different set of rules. And "temporary breaks" may need to occur, but when they do, are they really profitable?
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