What is the it factor for you to separate a friend/lover?
What is it for you that separates someone who's a friend from someone who you want to be with? Is it a specific trait? Is it a specific feeling? Is it not quantifiable?
What is the it factor for you?
For me, its all about chemistry, which in a way is one of those non quantifiable things, but you sometimes 'just know' the difference. There is that spark or that look or that feeling. There is that sense of explosiveness or closeness that comes from just being around someone...
Do you think that 'it' can grow or be born if it wasn't there at first? Someone you were platonic with for years, could you one day realize, wow, there IS something there? Is the opposite true as well?
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