Why does it matter what ethnicity she is? Regardless of what it is, she isn't familiar with the NPHC processes (plural b/c diff orgs do diff things

).
Is this the best possible forum to address the issue she brought up? No, most likely not. However, sometimes there is nowhere else to turn.
I'd rather hve give a "fake" poster a heartful true answer than have given a "real" poster a cynical "you're a troll" answer. Why? Because my organization believes in Righteousness, and I believe that is the righteous thing to do.
Random side comment:
Which D9 organizations is it legal to have a probate/coming out show?
I know Zetas can and Deltas can't (from what members in each org have told me). I assume Alphas, Kappas, Sigmas, Iotas and AKAs can since I've seen been to them or seen pics (Rashid's great pics of the 137

...shameless plug for his photogallery at
www.oldgoldsoul.com ahahaha)