Would you get seriously involved with a guy/girl if he/she......

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

To be honest with you, the women I know and I would probably find you very boring.

Not because we're loud and fast but because we like jokes and charismatic personalities--men who aren't loud but can light up a room even in their silence. Being quiet and reserved may not show your true personality. First impressions can determine whether a woman wants to give you her number and so forth. Also the book store, work, and school regiment is something for old professors to do. Those of us who are young professionals want some spice when we're "off the clock." That doesn't mean you have to be running the streets or having sex, but don't think you have to live the life of a monk, either. I don't know how old you are but I imagine you're a few years younger than I am. So if I find your routine BLAH then that says something.

Your brother's assessment may be accurate. Other possibilities are that you just have limited interactions with women due to your routine. That's basic probability statistics--if you are set to only meet 3 women per month, they are likely to not be what you're looking for and those negative encounters will stick out because you haven't had more positives encounters. Lastly, the women you encounter (the quiet ones, the louder ones, or whatever) may label your quiet reservation for insecurity or being an antisocial cornball.

LOL. DSTCHAOS, you're killing me. You are something else. O.K. you and your friends probably would get bored of me, but I'm sure I'd get bored of you ladies too. I guess I'm just an old professor because I love Borders bookstore. If women think I'm a boring insecure cornball, hey there's nothing I can do about that, I gotta be me.