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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
Let's NOT zero in on women who have prior connections, because I clearly stated that was NOT who the question is directed at. If you HAVE prior connections, then I wouldn't HAVE to ask "Why a sorority?" because the answer is "Because I have a prior connection to Greek life". I'm talking about those who DON'T have a prior connection....and again I ask the "collective you of PNAI who decided OMG I NEED TO BE IN A SORORITY EVEN THOUGH I GOT REJECTED 80 TIMES BUT THERE'S STILL AI!!111!!eleventyone!!!!11"
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You bring this up alot.
Why do you assume that everyone that wants to AI got rejected in college? That is not at all true. When your parents are paying all the bills because you have a difficult major, or if you attend a school that has no Greek system, those are very valid reasons for not joining. I was told I couldn't work, and as long as they are paying the bills, they get to make the rules. When you are not working, your parents control the cash flow and not all of them can see the benefit of sorority membership.
What about super-competitive SEC schools where if you don't get in as a Freshman you can pretty much give it up? These boards are full of women that went through as Freshman, that are beautiful, had recs, graduated with honors, but the bid matching system didn't give them a home. It happens! Are you saying these women can never be a valued member of your organization or have to wait on the random chance that they will meet an Alumnae member who will magically know their interest, and then even THINK about recruiting them for AI?
Do you go to work every day looking for women to join your organization? It's just not something that comes up when you are out of college and working a real job.
You are overlooking a very valuable resource that can be very valuable to your organization. I'm a single person with no other obligations. I am finally in a place in my career where I need something more, and this is what I have decided to do. If funds allow later, I would love to assist women financially in their persuit, I would also like to assist new college grads in finding jobs, which is getting to be more and more difficult.
Bottom line, it shouldn't matter how your sorority gets these women or the methods that they go through. If an AA makes the call to accept them as a sister after many meetings and possibly interviews and that AI is a fully participating member and contributing to the organization, what $!%* difference does it make?
Saying that a GC AI Forum will cause a flood of AI's to to bombard the nationals with phone calls is about as ridiculous as saying that if drugs were legalized tomorrow, everybody in America would be three sheets in the wind.
That isn't happening now b/c if it was, then the AA Chapters wouldn't appear puzzled and confused when AI is brought up.
I just think it's incredibly insulting that you just
ASSUME that every single person that inquires about AI was rejected for membership.
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