Motivate or punish?

[33girl]

If all this is the case, then market yourself as a service fraternity, not a social one. Get rid of your house (if you have one), lower your local dues (which should be rock bottom anyway, since you don't have mixers or formals), make all events alcohol free and let it be known that philanthropy is your #1 priority. Then you won't end up with a bunch of guys who are disappointed because they thought they were joining a social organization.