A GC Hypothetical

[GeekyPenguin]

So I got my hair cut last week and it looks pretty smoking.

Oh wait, this isn't the random thread?

[navane]

Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
I apologize, then, Sandy. I looked back and couldn't figure out who you might've been talking to (other than Kelly), though.

Kelly and I NEVER agree, but I def. didn't think her post deserved that reaction. Glad it didn't get it.

hehehehehe!!!!! I saw your first post and I thought, "What's this? HotDamn is trying to back me up??? Surely she *must* be talking about another Kelly!"



Thanks though!

.....Kelly

Originally posted by Lindz928
I thought that my post was pretty mild. If everyone thinks otherwise, please tell me.

Do you honestly receive pleasure from being mean to people and making them feel bad?

I thought that we were all adults here, can't we just be civil and communicate like adults?

I am certainly going to try, I hope you will too.

You're new, so you might not be familiar with how I am. I don't to get off by being "the bitch". I like to get off on other things. I call it like I see it, not so that others can feel like shit, but because most of the time, some things just need to be said.

If you thought your post was mild, then you think your post was mild. You shouldn't give two shits about what others think of what you write.

Those who have known me at GC since the beginning know that I don't conform myself to how it "should be".

So if I don't have a problem with how *I* communicate, then neither should you.

So now you know.

If you continue to have a problem with what I write, feel free to PM me so the rest of us can continue discussing the original intent of this thread. And you should instruct your minions/fan club to do so also.

KTHXBI.

Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
So I got my hair cut last week and it looks pretty smoking.

Oh wait, this isn't the random thread?

After today, you can't really tell the difference.

[navane]

Originally posted by KSig RC
Hm, weird - this sort of behavior is disarming and potentially dangerous? There you have it.

Kelly -

This is the point. Right here. This is why this was posted, I'd assume.

Ok, I'm not sure I'm following you here. Sometimes internet trolls are just annoyances and sometimes they cross the lines into real life. I wasn't trying to say that S&S, Jules and co. are making this up or overexaggerating.

I was trying to illustrate that a similar thing happened to me a couple of months ago. When we tried to warn people about stalker guy, they brushed us off saying it was probably just a little personal disagreement between a couple of people. One person even said that she thought it was "just an ego clash". But it WASN'T. It was one dude going a little nutty on us and getting bizarre. Someone in our club even passed along notes from Stalker Guy to us saying that, if we didn't like it, we could just ignore the messages.

When we finally broke down and aired all of the evidence, people came to a fuller understanding of the situation and how it was emotionally affecting us. Several club members apologized for not taking us seriously in the first place.

Similarly, simply saying that "So and so is harassing us off of GC" isn't necessarily going to get people behind you. The "faker" in question "seems ok" to most people here and thus some GCers aren't taking the thread seriously.

THAT was my point.

.....Kelly

[wrigley]

Regardless of what side of the fence you're on about this situation, I think we're all in agreement that when cyberstalking moves to the point that anyone has to fear for his/her safety in real life then that's a step that's gone a step too far. No one asks to be put in that situation. It's no cakewalk when it happens to you.

IHE/Mullet/enter next screen name, I hope you get the help you need to deal with your problems.Obviously she felt acceptance from the women involved on GC and she didn't have that in her real life. She wanted to belong so bad ,even if it was just a message board on the internet, enough to be able to do this twice. That's a real sad situation.

Since her persona was as a moderator the first time around, I hope some rules have been put in place to verify membership of those who apply to be future moderators of specific GLO message boards.

I disagree that this situation only effects the women who were betrayed by her actions.Sandy was right.IHE/Mullet could have perped that she was from the Girl Scouts, the point is her actions will have consequences to this message board. People may leave the board, be less friendly, less trusting or avoid offline contact all together or John can close the message board altogether. It was brave for the people involved to come forward. Forwarned is forarmed.

If you've been on GC for more than a year you can see how things change because of the few actions of others.

[CarolinaCutie]

I cannot believe that there are people in this thread who are actually DEFENDING IHE/Mullet in a way.

Honestly, although the stalking incidents are upsetting, I don't think any sort of stalking is really even necessary for the general GC population to be interested in this incident. IowaHawkeye was both a MODERATOR and a PERP... and she obviously didn't learn her lesson the first time around. She has not been deceiving just the H&A. Think of how the Delta Zetas and Alpha Xi Deltas must feel, to know that someone perping their organization is getting mixed support from the GC community.

Seriously you guys... she's a liar. That isn't enough for y'all? She has to commit some ban-able offenses before you care? I cannot comprehend how some people can say that this is not relevant to the board. It was posted in Chit-Chat, where it belongs... it's completely appropriate. Contrary to what some people may think, I don't think IHE/Mullet was outed to promote any sort of H&A agenda/conspiracy.

[WCUgirl]

Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine
She posed as a MODERATOR and member of DELTA ZETA from the University of Iowa and then masqueraded around as an ALPHA XI DELTA sister from Indiana University.

I know many DZs who were extremely upset about the situation the first time. The second time around she pretty much kept it on the DL that she was an Alpha Xi, but she did make references to that affiliation.

Okay, I just want to throw in my $0.02 here....I really only remember seeing about a dozen of Mullet's posts....and I think I remember that I didn't really care for her. However, I never caught any references to Alpha Xi Delta. She also never posted in the AZD forum. Did she make these references to being a member of AZD on GC?

[Rudey]

Originally posted by mu_agd
well, you know James, if you are going to call out people and say they posted personal information of Rudey online, why aren't you calling Rudey out for posting phone numbers and email addresses of other GC'ers online? is this that double standard coming back here??

I don't know what your issue is. I've never come on and upset you, insulted you, or said anything bad about you whether you care for my posts or not.

I have responded to this before. I do not harass you people. I want nothing to do with Tom yet I get harassed by him. He made his name into his username and wasn't upset about putting his public info on greekchat. As soon as I did it I was threatened with a banning.

Now as for you guys. You went and found out my name. You went and put up my pictures on here. How messed up is it to past someone's baby pictures on here?? I don't even talk to a lot of you. I don't care to. I specifically asked some of you nicely to remove my info and couldn't understand why and you all understood I was upset that you had put it on there. It was upsetting that you had also all gotten so caught up in this that several of you had to search on the net to find out this info about me and girls I didn't even know before (adpimel) decided to post info about me too. I have said that before. When this happened nobody talked about banning you.

So again, don't try and compare apples and oranges and I would prefer it if you put me damn well on ignore if it made you happy. As far as I'm concerned I don't know enough about what Mullet/IowaHawkEye did. Am I concerned? No because it doesn't affect me. Do I know everything? No probably not. Do I have sympathy for Jules? Yes and I think she knows that because I've never said anything to show her otherwise. She knows I was upset when you guys (not naming names) decided to come on here and make fun of people's looks like that when they had done nothing to you. I was upset when people made mocking livejournals and whatnot. That I won't budge on. You can say I upset people sometimes but I never go out looking to hurt someone and yes, people can be hurt by words on the internet just as you were upset when colonist made remarks about a girl being overweight so I think you should understand.

-Rudey

[texas*princess]

Rudey,

I think your above post is probably the first of your posts that I've ever agreed with (maybe just exaggerating a little, but still )

Thanks for making that clear and consise. Well said.

[AUDeltaGam]

Wow... I just caught up on all of this, and all I can say is

Originally posted by AXiD670
Okay, I just want to throw in my $0.02 here....I really only remember seeing about a dozen of Mullet's posts....and I think I remember that I didn't really care for her. However, I never caught any references to Alpha Xi Delta. She also never posted in the AZD forum. Did she make these references to being a member of AZD on GC?

She was very tight lipped about her "affiliation" for a long time, but I do recall reading about IU and AXiD on GC. I tried looking for posts to prove the above info, but I can't find anything -- she's probably edited/deleted everything (something reflective of what she did last year as IHE, she spent almost the whole day cleaning up her lies).

She participated in some of those "lively" AIM chats last year, and I'm certain that she revealed her GLO more than once, not only to me, but to the room. Still, she was extremely tight lipped about it, probably because she didn't want to be outed again.

I know I don't have proof (it's probably gone), and y'all can take my word or not, but still -- I'm 100% sure that I did not pull out AXiD's Indiana University chapter out of my butt.

[WCUgirl]

Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine
She was very tight lipped about her "affiliation" for a long time, but I do recall reading about IU and AXiD on GC. I tried looking for posts to prove the above info, but I can't find anything -- she's probably edited/deleted everything (something reflective of what she did last year as IHE, she spent almost the whole day cleaning up her lies).

She participated in some of those "lively" AIM chats last year, and I'm certain that she revealed her GLO more than once, not only to me, but to the room. Still, she was extremely tight lipped about it, probably because she didn't want to be outed again.

I know I don't have proof (it's probably gone), and y'all can take my word or not, but still -- I'm 100% sure that I did not pull out AXiD's Indiana University chapter out of my butt.

I received a PM about this - you're correct.

Thanks!

[Sister Havana]

Wow. I leave for a night and look what happens! This is quite a surprise.

[UKDaisy]

*grabs a bag of popcorn and large Coke*

Continue fighting everyone........