how long do you wait? - Page 2

James · #16 12-15-2003, 02:34 AM

no no no . . .

I just had NASA do that calculation and it came out to . .Drum roll please . . .

The first date!!!!! so thats the answer

Thank you for playing the game: when to phuck your man

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
There's a very easy, surefire way to figure this one out. First, multiply the number of dates you've been on by the Magic Age At Which People Should Get Married, and divide that by the number of licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie-Pop. Then, add the guy's shoe size, subtract the number of Sundays in the year 1980, and then get the square root of the number you just figured.

In other words, I don't think it really matters. Everybody's different.

jharb · #17 12-15-2003, 02:38 AM

I wait until it feels right, usually you just know when it's the right time for you...and if he doesn't feel the same way then that's his problem!

Currently with mr. jharb it was quite early on...but with my previous boyfriend it was quite a while before it happened.

astroAPhi · #18 12-15-2003, 04:09 AM

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Originally posted by honeychile
If you don't know for certain how he'd react if you told him that you're "late" - it's too soon!

Well I think most of us can be pretty sure that they'd freak out.

honeychile · #19 12-15-2003, 09:43 AM

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Originally posted by astroAPhi
Well I think most of us can be pretty sure that they'd freak out.

Yes, but freak out how?

*"You're on your own."
*"You must have an abortion."
*"We must get married."
*"How should we handle this?"

That's just a few possible reactions. If it's not the last one, you're not really ready, are you?

aurora_borealis · #20 12-15-2003, 11:40 AM

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Originally posted by honeychile
Yes, but freak out how?

*"You're on your own."
*"You must have an abortion."
*"We must get married."
*"How should we handle this?"

That's just a few possible reactions. If it's not the last one, you're not really ready, are you?

How about the trash talk show classic "it isn't mine you must have been with someone else" then the young "lady" has six men tested, claiming she was with "no one else".

How long would I wait? Until I'm ready.

James · #21 12-15-2003, 01:17 PM

In chapter 12 of the Guy Manual it covers this ituation under the section, Unforseen Consequences (AKA: Bad Luck).

The appropriate default response is to throw your arms around the girl, give her a heartfelt hug, and say: "Oh my God sweetie you must be so scared!" then you hold the hug for a couple more heartbeats and say, "Your not alone we'll work this out together."

Heartfelt kiss is good at that point as well as some more pampering and comforting.

If you have trouble remembering this guys, just break out the emergency cue cards in the Appendix section of the manual.

All obvious thoughts like: It must be someone elses. I am to young to have my life ruined. I want a paternity test. And just weeping in despair should be kept you yourselfuntil a more appropriate time.

/end public service announcement

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Originally posted by honeychile
Yes, but freak out how?

*"You're on your own."
*"You must have an abortion."
*"We must get married."
*"How should we handle this?"

That's just a few possible reactions. If it's not the last one, you're not really ready, are you?

HotDamnImAPhiMu · #22 12-15-2003, 03:18 PM

james for president

cashmoney · #23 12-15-2003, 03:42 PM

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Originally posted by cash78mere
couldn't find a thread like this anywhere...

after starting a new relationship that you would really like to see last and grow into something good, how long do you wait before you have sex? not that there's a magical number of months or dates, but what is a good amount of time?

I gave my GF 2 weeks after we started seeing each other. She made me wait as long as she could before realizing I was about to bounce. When you say sex I'm assuming you mean intercourse. If she'd waited any longer I wouldn't have called her again. I hate when I hear of girls making a guy wait for at least a month. I feel like telling those girls they're no longer in high school...they don't need to wait that long before they dish it out. people won't think of them as a slut if they dish out before 30 days. I think thats what pisses me off about virgins, they think they're so high and mighty. The truth is, they're the ones missing out.

cash78mere · #24 12-15-2003, 06:48 PM

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Originally posted by James
no no no . . .

I just had NASA do that calculation and it came out to . .Drum roll please . . .

The first date!!!!! so thats the answer Thank you for playing the game: when to phuck your man

hahaha...you are too much.

MiAngel711 · #25 12-17-2003, 02:49 PM

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Originally posted by FiReKraCkEr
I think it's a good idea if wait until you know for sure they're not only in it for the pootang....

Enough said..

YESSSSSSSS! you said pootang! you are my new bestest friend!

I also agree whole heartedly with the comment as well. I usually just go with the flow, but there are a few things that make me thing twice about giving it up.

Ask yourself honesty:

1. Shady history? Like did how did he treat his last interest? What do his friends/your friends say about it? Crime record?Credabilty is a must.

2. Motivations? Like is he a man-slut? The ladies man? I don't want to be anyones hatchmark on the bed post and doubt you do either!

3. Ex of a sister? 'Nuff said. No matter if she says its "OK", its never going to be "OK".

4. Maturity Level? Is the whole greek system going to know your talents by 2pm the next day? Even if said talents are true/false? Will he be able to treat you the same the morning after with out awkwardness. Can he handle talking about condoms, etc with out sounding like a 13 year old.

5. His feelings toward you? If he is way more interested in you than you can ever be in him. DONT. Its a short route to hurt feelings and a jealously over a relationship that never was.

Hope this helps!

FiReKraCkEr · #26 12-18-2003, 12:43 AM

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Originally posted by MiAngel711
YESSSSSSSS! you said pootang! you are my new bestest friend!

LOL, pootang bringing people together as friends!!!...LOL Sorry, I just thought that was funny...

krazy · #27 12-22-2003, 05:03 PM

Wait until you are married.

Optimist Prime · #28 12-22-2003, 07:01 PM

Wait untill I'm in the room. Or at least clean my sheets you horny bitch.

absolutuscchick · #29 12-23-2003, 01:57 AM

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Originally posted by MiAngel711
5. His feelings toward you? If he is way more interested in you than you can ever be in him. DONT. Its a short route to hurt feelings and a jealously over a relationship that never was.

Hope this helps!

I agree with everything you've said, but I'd also like to add a sixth....if you like him more than he likes you, or he strings you along...even if you just sense these things, DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM!! You'll really end up getting hurt!!

AOcutiePi4ever · #30 12-25-2003, 04:30 AM

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Originally posted by cashmoney
I gave my GF 2 weeks after we started seeing each other. She made me wait as long as she could before realizing I was about to bounce. When you say sex I'm assuming you mean intercourse. If she'd waited any longer I wouldn't have called her again. I hate when I hear of girls making a guy wait for at least a month. I feel like telling those girls they're no longer in high school...they don't need to wait that long before they dish it out. people won't think of them as a slut if they dish out before 30 days. I think thats what pisses me off about virgins, they think they're so high and mighty. The truth is, they're the ones missing out.

OMG PLEASE TELL ME YOU'RE KIDDING.