PinkBabygirl10's Informal Sorority Recruitment Thread

[FSUZeta]

oops, my bad, just goes to show that sometimes i am not adept at multitasking!!

in the scenario that you quoted, then the members or at least the officers or those appointed to the task would know how the pnms ranked. reading that i guessed that in that scenario, the sorority would only extend bids to those pnms who had ranked them first.

[UGAalum94]

Walk me through why it's bad to have to go to a full schedule of parties even if you aren't really that interested in the groups.

The way it seems to me, you only get bids from the groups you weren't crazy about if your choice groups don't want you bad enough.

If you know that you only want a bid from a few, then only put the ones that you want on the bid card. The only thing you lose is a chance at being a quota additions, right?

I also don't totally understand the benefits of being able to get more than one bid. Is it the chance to keep thinking it over? Or is it that you don't want groups to have a quota? Your want them to be able to take whoever they want without limit?

(Is anybody really truthful about why people get snap bids? Nobody actually says, "Well, we wanted some other people more, but since they picked other groups, we now want you" or "we know that you cut us to pref someplace else, but we saw that you were still not matched. We really want to make quota or reach chapter total, and now that you know you're not too good for us, we thought we'd give it another shot.")

[Buttonz]

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

Walk me through why it's bad to have to go to a full schedule of parties even if you aren't really that interested in the groups.

My issue with that would be more on the sisters side then anything. If sisters see they keep on getting "full" parties, whatever a full party is for them, and then wind up with a pledge class that is way under what quota is, they might not understand where they did wrong and what needs to be changed. If there is a big drop off after a party, they might have an easier time understanding and correcting the problem, and have a better chance of having a pledge class that is a little closer to quota.

[UGAalum94]

(Now that I see your answer, I remember that I've talked about this before. I apologize if I'm repeating myself.)

I can see what you are saying. Don't you think there are some people though whom come back and change their minds?

I think at UGA what would happen is that a lot of girls would cut themselves out after second round. After first round they would cut the groups who were really interested in them, and then they'd be left with nobody if there early first choices released them.

Maybe for prefs, you are right, but at that point, it's probably just a heads up to the chapter of how bad things are going to be on bid day, as opposed to being able to do anything about it.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

(Is anybody really truthful about why people get snap bids? Nobody actually says, "Well, we wanted some other people more, but since they picked other groups, we now want you" or "we know that you cut us to pref someplace else, but we saw that you were still not matched. We really want to make quota or reach chapter total, and now that you know you're not too good for us, we thought we'd give it another shot.")

No, it's more like "we know you wanted someone else and didn't match with them, but we still want you to be OUR sister because we think you'd be happy in the long run." I think boiling it down to a numbers only thing is a little cynical.

Plus, sometimes the people you offer snap bids to WERE on your first bid list, they just didn't put you down, so it's not a case of "wanting other people more."

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by 33girl

No, it's more like "we know you wanted someone else and didn't match with them, but we still want you to be OUR sister because we think you'd be happy in the long run." I think boiling it down to a numbers only thing is a little cynical.

Plus, sometimes the people you offer snap bids to WERE on your first bid list, they just didn't put you down, so it's not a case of "wanting other people more."

Yeah, you're right. Sometimes it's because you want to give people a second chance because you know rush makes people crazy. You can know they would be a good fit even if they don't know it yet.

In the second example, though, you're really just kicking the situation back to the second kind of snap: when the chapter wanted the girl, but the girl didn't want the chapter.

I kind of intended the first example for the times when you offer bids to girls because not enough of the ones on your bid list actually accepted and you find yourselves with openings. Usually this happens because chapters "cut themselves out" rather than because their numbers were generally low.

I think release figures may be helping all of this because in addition to keeping some of the most popular from stringing everyone along, it also allows smaller chapters to know how many people they need to think in terms of bringing back, even if they are tempted to cut more. Back in the olden days, some chapters would get kind of cut happy because they misread people's interest level.

[Buttonz]

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

(Now that I see your answer, I remember that I've talked about this before. I apologize if I'm repeating myself.)

I can see what you are saying. Don't you think there are some people though whom come back and change their minds?

I think at UGA what would happen is that a lot of girls would cut themselves out after second round. After first round they would cut the groups who were really interested in them, and then they'd be left with nobody if there early first choices released them.

Maybe for prefs, you are right, but at that point, it's probably just a heads up to the chapter of how bad things are going to be on bid day, as opposed to being able to do anything about it.

What about if it were for prefs and maybe even the round before prefs? I could see going ahead and having a PNM have a full schedule but after 2-3 rounds you usually have a good idea of where you could never see yourself no matter what, IMO.

[UGAalum94]

As long as it's after groups cut the majority of the people they aren't seriously interested in, I think it could work. It's just tricky because a lot of us believe that there should be an incentive to encourage PNMs to give the chapters that didn't first wow them a second or third chance. It's important that they have a chance to go back after their dream groups cut them.

Although many girls get bids from the first choice of the groups on the bid card, I think it's a much tinier group that get bids from the group they picked as number one after 1st round. If we let the PNMs cut group too early and if we don't have an incentive for them to keep their eyes open, it increases the chance that they won't join at all.

Sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to have a system like the guys do: as long as you're happy with the numbers and your national group thinks you're healthy, there doesn't seem to be pressure to take a certain number of people. At every campus, there are well regarded guys' chapters of different sizes. But in the traditional NPC recruitment, quota, chapter total system, to be more than maybe 10-15% smaller than the biggest chapter often makes the chapter suspect.

(You know how guys can kind of give out bids any time and they aren't limited in number? Do you think that if women's groups did that some women would forever stalk certain chapters?)

[Buttonz]

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

As long as it's after groups cut the majority of the people they aren't seriously interested in, I think it could work. It's just tricky because a lot of us believe that there should be an incentive to encourage PNMs to give the chapters that didn't first wow them a second or third chance. It's important that they have a chance to go back after their dream groups cut them.

Although many girls get bids from the first choice of the groups on the bid card, I think it's a much tinier group that get bids from the group they picked as number one after 1st round. If we let the PNMs cut group too early and if we don't have an incentive for them to keep their eyes open, it increases the chance that they won't join at all.

Sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to have a system like the guys do: as long as you're happy with the numbers and your national group thinks you're healthy, there doesn't seem to be pressure to take a certain number of people. At every campus, there are well regarded guys' chapters of different sizes. But in the traditional NPC recruitment, quota, chapter total system, to be more than maybe 10-15% smaller than the biggest chapter often makes the chapter suspect.

(You know how guys can kind of give out bids any time and they aren't limited in number? Do you think that if women's groups did that some women would forever stalk certain chapters?)

I hate the whole #'s thing, I really do. While I understand it, I hate that there is pressure to have X number of girls. I rather have a smaller group that was closer and super strong then have a large group that barely knew anyone.

Like I said, maybe if they didn't make it mandatory for Pref and the round before Pref (depending on the # of rounds) I'd be able to agree with it more.

[Xylochick216]

If each chapter can only give out 16 bids, what if they give them all to the same girls? Are the other PNMs just out of luck? That's not fair to the women who made it to pref but weren't at the very top of the list. I know mutual selection is a flawed process, but it's the most fair thing we've got for now.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

(You know how guys can kind of give out bids any time and they aren't limited in number? Do you think that if women's groups did that some women would forever stalk certain chapters?)

YES.

Sometimes they even try to join other orgs that the members are in. (insert barf icon)

That's why no matter how far you are under total, it's never good to totally show your hand and have open bid parties week in and week out - because sooner or later, you WILL have Nutbag Nora show up saying "well hey, you need girls, what about me?" and you'll have to explain to her that although "sane" is not expressly listed in your membership requirements, it is implied.

[ASUADPi]

Originally Posted by 33girl

YES.

because sooner or later, you WILL have Nutbag Nora show up saying "well hey, you need girls, what about me?" and you'll have to explain to her that although "sane" is not expressly listed in your membership requirements, it is implied.

the bolded part had me ROTFL!!!!!!

[ADPiLove]

Omg, ASUADPi, I love you for having POTC quotes. And yes, the sane part was freaking hilarious!!