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Old 10-24-2009, 02:30 AM
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Good first date conversations

I'm in an awkward position. I've been chatting with a chick I met online for about 6 months. We had such good chatting conversations that we exchanged e-mails and phone numbers. We're going to be meeting up for the first time tomorrow, but I feel we've chatted and talked about so much, that I'm trying to figure out what else it is we can talk about that we haven't either chatted about online, on the phone or e-mail. What would you consider good first (kind of) blind date conversations? Have you ever had a date who didn't know how to hold an interesting conversation? How did you handle it?
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Old 10-24-2009, 04:15 AM
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Well if you have already been talking to her online for a while, you must know something about her. Maybe try something like, "Oh I remember you telling me you were working on a big project for work. How'd that go?" I dunno! Just something that shows you've been paying attention and you're interested in her.
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Old 10-24-2009, 06:19 AM
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You could talk about the kid you have on the way. That'd be a good ice-breaker, and not at all awkward.
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Old 10-24-2009, 08:08 AM
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You could talk about the kid you have on the way. That'd be a good ice-breaker, and not at all awkward.
Seriously. That's the first thing I thought of. I wouldn't be so worried about first dates right now as I would getting your isht together for the baby.
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Old 10-24-2009, 01:33 PM
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Me thinks Xanthus is full of crap.

He could be a pre-teen playing on the Internet, for all we know.

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Old 10-24-2009, 02:23 PM
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I'm in an awkward position. I've been chatting with a chick I met online for about 6 months. We had such good chatting conversations that we exchanged e-mails and phone numbers. We're going to be meeting up for the first time tomorrow, but I feel we've chatted and talked about so much, that I'm trying to figure out what else it is we can talk about that we haven't either chatted about online, on the phone or e-mail. What would you consider good first (kind of) blind date conversations? Have you ever had a date who didn't know how to hold an interesting conversation? How did you handle it?
"How does this condom thing work?" would be a good start. Since, you know, that's new to you...
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Old 10-24-2009, 02:37 PM
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Also, "do you mind if I call you a chick?"
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Old 10-25-2009, 07:34 AM
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"How does this condom thing work?" would be a good start. Since, you know, that's new to you...
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Old 10-26-2009, 12:34 AM
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lol i knew you'd be here sooner or later!

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I had a nice time. She's really nice and I enjoyed her company. The drive was long but it was well worth it. Lucy, thanks for your response, unfortunately, I read it a little too late.

The rest of you douchebags can eat a dick.
that will not make us preggers so i guess that's acceptable.
lmao! don't get mad because you're the king of TMI on GC.
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Old 10-26-2009, 11:48 PM
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lol i knew you'd be here sooner or later!
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Old 10-26-2009, 11:49 PM
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that will not make us preggers so i guess that's acceptable.
lmao! don't get mad because you're the king of TMI on GC.
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Old 10-27-2009, 12:18 AM
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lol i knew you'd be here sooner or later!



that will not make us preggers so i guess that's acceptable.
lmao! don't get mad because you're the king of TMI on GC.
I have to say - dreamseeker wins the internet today.
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Old 10-27-2009, 12:29 AM
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I have to say - dreamseeker wins the internet today.
YAY!!
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Old 10-24-2009, 02:48 PM
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And last, but not least, "how much do babies cost?"
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Old 10-24-2009, 03:35 PM
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damn you all! i done spit on myself and my computer laughing. UGH!! LMAO!!!!
i had to jack that smiley from PB.
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