What do you feel like saying, right now?

[Phrozen Sands]

Lol @ John in the introduction thread explaining how GC was once off the chain and why folks bounced. I’m messin with you, John Lol.

[John]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Lol @ John in the introduction thread explaining how GC was once off the chain and why folks bounced. I’m messin with you, John Lol.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

That’s all I’ve been doing with my free time is watching the NBA finals. Y’all just might win it all. Minnesota’s defense is on point. Defensive teams always dominate.

Yep! Did you see how close last night’s game was?

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Lol @ John in the introduction thread explaining how GC was once off the chain and why folks bounced. I’m messin with you, John Lol.

lol
John should make it half and half. Half the board for sororities and fraternities and the other half for ethnic Greeks. It’d be really busy then. I’m kidding.

[cheerfulgreek]

The Sixers are still alive, lol.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Yep! Did you see how close last night’s game was?

lol
John should make it half and half. Half the board for sororities and fraternities and the other half for ethnic Greeks. It’d be really busy then. I’m kidding.

Yeah, I saw it.

Lmao @ you trying to get your peeps over here.

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

The Sixers are still alive, lol.

You watching the Pacers - Bucks game?

[Phrozen Sands]

What’s up with all these college protests? Damn!

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

You watching the Pacers - Bucks game?

I watched it until halftime, then went to bed.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

lol
You’re nosy. But I am too, lol. Yep, he’s got one from his second marriage.

Yes, of course. I’m always taking about my hubby and kids. I’ve seen quite a few people from college and high school. I have another classmate from undergrad whose dog is a patient of mine. It’s a very small world.

Lmao, I was about to say, I know you ain’t talking about me being nosy. You are nosy as hell. I’m glad you admitted it. Speaking of nosy, did you ask him why he got divorced twice? 30 minutes is enough time to ask him that, CG Lol. Was he your high school boyfriend at the time? I’m assuming, since you were a cheerleader and he played football.

Originally Posted by AGDee

My prom date is the whole reason I went Greek. He was a year older than me and pledged TKE when I was a senior in high school. He took me to my prom and then I went to the same school. I hung out with him and his roommate (one of my best friends from college who also pledged TKE) all the time and was bummed out that I couldn't go to the greek nights at the bar or greek happy hours at the bar with them.

So second semester of my freshman year, I decided to rush so I could be part of all the fun. I had met friends of theirs from one of the sororities and I couldn't stand one of them so I didn't even go to their rush events. One sorority was pretty much non-existant- I think they had 5 members, so that one was out. That left two- AGD and another. I went to parties at both and the women at the other one never even spoke to me. Nobody picked me up at the door in rotations and I wandered around by myself the whole time. So I ended up pledging AGD.

He broke up with me the next fall and I met my first husband, a LXA, a few weeks later.

I'm facebook friends with the old prom date. He's the only ex boyfriend I've ever had who I would consider getting back together again. I still think he's really cute, 40 years later. I enjoy his sense of humor so much. He lives a couple hours away though. He was definitely my first love.

That’s an interesting story. I thought you were hollering at a new dude? Unless that’s the same dude.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by AGDee

My prom date is the whole reason I went Greek. He was a year older than me and pledged TKE when I was a senior in high school. He took me to my prom and then I went to the same school. I hung out with him and his roommate (one of my best friends from college who also pledged TKE) all the time and was bummed out that I couldn't go to the greek nights at the bar or greek happy hours at the bar with them.

So second semester of my freshman year, I decided to rush so I could be part of all the fun. I had met friends of theirs from one of the sororities and I couldn't stand one of them so I didn't even go to their rush events. One sorority was pretty much non-existant- I think they had 5 members, so that one was out. That left two- AGD and another. I went to parties at both and the women at the other one never even spoke to me. Nobody picked me up at the door in rotations and I wandered around by myself the whole time. So I ended up pledging AGD.

He broke up with me the next fall and I met my first husband, a LXA, a few weeks later.

I'm facebook friends with the old prom date. He's the only ex boyfriend I've ever had who I would consider getting back together again. I still think he's really cute, 40 years later. I enjoy his sense of humor so much. He lives a couple hours away though. He was definitely my first love.

What was his reason for breaking up with you?

He’s only a couple of hours away? You should go for it, Dee! Do it! Do it! Do it! lol.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Lmao, I was about to say, I know you ain’t talking about me being nosy. You are nosy as hell. I’m glad you admitted it. Speaking of nosy, did you ask him why he got divorced twice? 30 minutes is enough time to ask him that, CG Lol. Was he your high school boyfriend at the time? I’m assuming, since you were a cheerleader and he played football.

lol
No, I didn’t ask him that. But I SO wanted to, lol.

Yep. But he was my boyfriend for like 5 days? Then, I broke up with him. 🫤

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Yep. But he was my boyfriend for like 5 days? Then, I broke up with him. 🫤

Lol!!! Wtf? You dumped that dude in 5 days? Why? Why’d you even get in a relationship with him if you knew you were going to dump him? CG, I can tell you were the girl a lot of dudes wanted to be with, and when some dude got in a relationship with you, you’d dump him because you could. I hated chicks like you in high school and college Lol! You were that girl who never knew what she wanted - wishy washy as hell.

What’d he say when you did that shit after 5 days? You are a trip, CG. Lol

[PrettyBoy]

I was pretty much forced to go to my high school prom. That was a “why?” moment for me. Being there made zero sense, to me. Didn’t even ask the girl to dance.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I was pretty much forced to go to my high school prom. That was a “why?” moment for me. Being there made zero sense, to me. Didn’t even ask the girl to dance.

Lol! This prom topic has got me over here cracking up. How can anybody force you to go to prom? Why didn’t you want to go? I hear you on the dancing. Unless it’s a slow cut, I’m not dancing.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Lol!!! Wtf? You dumped that dude in 5 days? Why? Why’d you even get in a relationship with him if you knew you were going to dump him? CG, I can tell you were the girl a lot of dudes wanted to be with, and when some dude got in a relationship with you, you’d dump him because you could. I hated chicks like you in high school and college Lol! You were that girl who never knew what she wanted - wishy washy as hell.

What’d he say when you did that shit after 5 days? You are a trip, CG. Lol

lol
Omg, that was like 25 years ago! I was like 15/16 then? So, I don’t remember what he said.

[cheerfulgreek]

WIFLSRN: So, going back to the conversation you guys were having about P Diddy on here, there’s a really good documentary about him on Tubi. I’m watching it now. It’s SO good. They’re making it seem like so many powerful people were involved in his shenanigans.

[AGDee]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

That’s an interesting story. I thought you were hollering at a new dude? Unless that’s the same dude.

Not the same dude- this other guy is in Atlanta and we're talking daily but there are barriers to overcome. We've been talking about how we would manage things - summers in Michigan, winters in the warm place of his choice, if we end up together. We just spent 3 hours on the phone this morning. I could talk to him forever. It's always hard to hang up the phone. We are texting late into the night too- both of us having a hard time saying goodnight. We met 24 years ago. He's the only person who really knows me to my core- good, bad, ugly. He's everything I've ever wanted in a partner. A fit cognitively, spiritually and physically. I'll be connected to him in a very deep way whether we ever end up truly together or not. For the first 14 years, I thought we'd end up together at this stage of life. Then for the last 10 years, I thought there was no way it would happen. Very soon, we will both be in a position where we can possibly be together. We've been waiting a long time.

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

What was his reason for breaking up with you?

He’s only a couple of hours away? You should go for it, Dee! Do it! Do it! Do it! lol.

I was pretty insecure, clingy and jealous back then. I was so afraid of losing him. I think he felt too young to be that tied down too. He wanted to date other people and he dated someone else and then came back. Then a month later he wanted to date other people again. I was 19 and he was 20 so I get it. He will talk about how head over heels he was for me and how he has never been in a longa distance thing again because of how difficult it was for us to be apart during the summers. I might suggest we meet for lunch sometime when I'm on that side of the state again and see how it goes. He's close to Lake Michigan, where my future daughter in law is from. He lives in the town where she went to high school.