To Tell or not to tell

DaemonSeid · #1 11-26-2007, 06:21 PM

This kinda goes back to a topic Dionysus posted a while back....(just that it doesn't invole a circle of friends!) but here goes:

What would you do if you ever found yourself in a situation where your friend's significant other hit on you? What would you do at that moment?

Would you tell your friend or keep it to yourself?

If you chose to tell, how would you go about doing it?

Is there any time where sometimes not telling is the best option?

Worse...hehehe...has there ever been a time this has happened and you went with the flow and what were the repercussions?

James · #2 11-26-2007, 07:02 PM

You don't mention it. Ever.

Benzgirl · #3 11-26-2007, 07:06 PM

Don't tell, don't think about it. Poof, it's gone, it never happened

DaemonSeid · #4 11-26-2007, 07:18 PM

So then if you are ever confronted....how do you explain as to why you never said anything?

Benzgirl · #5 11-26-2007, 07:21 PM

Who is telling? The significant other of the friend?
Why are they telling? Hmmmm.
If confronted, I would be honest. Nothing happened and you didn't want to ruin your friendship because your friendship means a lot to you.

DaemonSeid · #6 11-26-2007, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Benzgirl

Who is telling? The significant other of the friend?
Why are they telling? Hmmmm.
If confronted, I would be honest. Nothing happened and you didn't want to ruin your friendship because your friendship means a lot to you.

no...if your friend ever confronted you....sorry if that wasn't clear...

SirHornyToad · #7 11-27-2007, 12:08 AM

I used to date this girl and her best friend got drunk and hit on me pretty hard... I thought it was F-d up but also pretty funny.

AGDee · #8 11-27-2007, 12:17 AM

One of my neighbors used to hit on me shamelessly. When one neighbor had a bonfire, he'd offer me a seat.. on his lap. He constantly asked where my kids were and, if they were with their dad, would say "OH, so you're ALONE" in that very obvious way. It was done in kind of a joking, overly sleazy way that I could blow off or joke away but I also knew that if I took the bait or gave him any indication that I'd consider it, he would go for it. I wouldn't do that to his wife. It was well known in the neighborhood that he cheated on her repeatedly. When he finally told her outright about one of his girlfriends, she kicked him out. I was relieved. I have still never said a word to her about how uncomfortable his overtures made me or how he was so obnoxious. She doesn't need more fuel on that fire and she's away from it now, so there's no reason.

TonyB06 · #9 11-27-2007, 03:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

This kinda goes back to a topic Dionysus posted a while back....(just that it doesn't invole a circle of friends!) but here goes:

What would you do if you ever found yourself in a situation where your friend's significant other hit on you? What would you do at that moment?

Would you tell your friend or keep it to yourself?

If you chose to tell, how would you go about doing it?

Is there any time where sometimes not telling is the best option?

Worse...hehehe...has there ever been a time this has happened and you went with the flow and what were the repercussions?

did I like it? No, for real, in the moment I'd check the person about what they tried to pull. Later, w/out telling my signifgicant other, I'd casually inquire about how long/well they were friends.

If it happened again, I'd let my significant other know about it and that I'd had to check her girl's behavior earlier.