sisterhood
Today I had one of my new member meetings with our pledge teams. I understand that being a pledge sister at a sorority doesn't automatically make you bff's with everyone but I thought that they were still supposed to treat you as if you were going to become a sister. So today at my meeting the president stood up in the middle and was like we're not going to act as if were all sisters with you because right now your not. You are beneath us because you're not yet initated. You have to earn our sisterhood, and we won't treat you as one until your initation day. She said that it's a higherarchy, and because we are new members that we are worse then them because we don't have the official badge and everyone at the table agreed and said that its totally true. Do i have a right to be upset that they don't want to be my friend and treat me nicely just because i'm not initated. I'm still the same person that i'll be in april.
Sorry it's so long!
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