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Be a good big!
Okay, this is pretty random, but I just wanted to ask all the girls in sororities to PLEASE be a good big sis to your lil.
As a freshman last year, i was so excited to find out who my big was. Our chapter is large, and I didn't know many older girls, so I looked forward to becoming friends with my big.
However, that did not happen. After the big/lil reveal [in November], I didn't see her again until Initiation [in January]. She never gave me her phone number (I gave her mine) or acted like she wanted to have any kind of contact with me. She didn't even bother to tell me that she was not going to come to our annual big/lil Christmas party, where I sat next to her empty seat all night holding onto her present that I had carefully selected for her.
She never speaks to me, ever. When I see her at chapter, I smile and wave, and she just looks the other way. Most of my sisters are best friends with their bigs; it just makes me kind of sad that I don't have that with mine.
So please, if you're just a mediocre big sis, try to improve. It really makes your lil feel terrible when her big wants nothing to do with her.
Anyone else have a big/lil story?
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