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Old 09-28-2006, 03:44 PM
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Exclusivity -- too soon?

Situation:

Woman goes on pretty lame date (dinner and errand-like shopping) with guy. She doesn't seem to be into him and even makes a list of things that bugged her and why she's not into him.

Three days later, woman goes on second date with guy. This time, something "clicks" and she digs him.

A few days later, guy says he wants woman to "be his girlfriend."

My response: TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!

Woman's response: Why?
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So here's my question -- why is it too soon, or am I wrong?

My first thought is that unless you're a teenager, bringing up the exclusivity issue (which is what "be his girlfriend" means to me) after the second non-spectacular date reeks of desperation and/or creepy. I think there is something wrong with a person who would do that, and running for the hills might be a good idea. If you disagree, please explain.
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