Is it tacky to ask who has been invited to a party?
I have been gathering mailing addresses for a a housewarming party. I was asked the following question:
"Now, my next question is...don't be offended, but you've got quite an eclectic group of friends, will it be the mixed crowd we're used to, the APhi crowd, or the G-town preps?"
My instinctual response was "Bitch, be glad you got invited!"
But my actual reply was "I am inviting all my friends. I have no idea who will show up."
Was her question tacky or am I being an etiquette nazi?
Backstory: This is someone I was friends with in high school but have only had intermittent contact with since then. Thought it would be nice to invite her if she's able to come.
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