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Originally Posted by IrishLake
My pro-life stance has nothing to do with my faith. (I'm also very pro-gay rights, my church telling me it's a sin has no impact on my feelings). I think the adoption culture in our country is crap. Abortion as a means of birth control makes me very sad, because I know SO many potentially wonderful parents who are waiting for a baby to adopt. If the public psychological resources existed to helped women with unwanted pregnancies carry to term and give the baby to an adoptive family, that would be an amazing thing and help so many people. Then those same resources have to be there to help the birth mother during her post-partum years as well.
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I don't think that the majority of women who are getting abortions are using it as a form of birth control, but I'd be interested to see some actual statistics.
I would agree that the adoption culture in our country is all kinds of screwed up. There are plenty of children that want/need to be adopted, and there are plenty of great potential parents who are turned down for ridiculous reasons. However, I wouldn't agree (if this is what you were implying) that all women who wish to get an abortion should carry their child to term and give their baby up for adoption. This isn't the solution. If you get pregnant and you truly don't want to have a baby, then 9 months of pregnancy, hours of labor, and having to give your child away doesn't sound too appealing. It's not as though you're deciding between a chicken sandwich or a salad for lunch. This is a life-changing decision that will affect you for the rest of your life. And giving up 9 months of your life just to give your baby away isn't what everyone is willing to do. And in my opinion, they shouldn't have to.
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Originally Posted by AGDee
IrishLake- I totally agree that there should be more services to support women who might consider adoption if they had the medical means and psychological support to do so. There are so many ways to help reduce the number of abortions in this country that are NOT employed. Instead of increasing availability to birth control, education and support, they simply enact laws that hurt women instead of helping them. I just don't think force and coercion are the right means.
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Exactly. Ironically, a lot of times, the same people who are arguing against abortion, are the same ones who are arguing against any form of birth control.
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Originally Posted by MysticCat
Agree completely.
To be fair to those who oppose abortion on religious grounds, though, it's not just that they believe it's a sin. They believe it is the killing of another human, an innocent human. They believe it is murder. The belief that murder is wrong is certainly not limited to religious people -- it's pretty much a given in most societies.
So, from the perspective of those who oppose abortion on religious grounds, it's not a matter of "I think it's a sin, so everyone else should as well." Rather, it's a matter of a moral imperative to prevent the killing of innocent humans and to object when the culture (in their view) condones the murder of those unable to protect or speak for themselves.
Obviously, not everyone agrees with that view. But if the question is going to be asked "Why don't they understand that not everyone thinks abortion is a sin and stop telling us what to do?," then there needs to be some understanding that to a person who opposes abortion on religious grounds, that question makes no more sense than asking "Why don't they understand that not everyone thinks genocide is a sin?"
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Fair enough. I think that the majority of the people that I hear this argument from are arguing it based on religious reasons. And in most cases, the religious argument applies to the gay rights/marriage debate, which I mentioned in my original statement. I know that's not the topic of this thread, so I'll refrain from delving into that topic.
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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
I am all for adoption, but I think it's a unicorns pooping rainbows answer to the abortion problem. Would I counsel a woman to consider it, yes. But once the decision is made, then the world needs to get off her back.
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Exactly.