[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

In a perfect world, she should not have to. In an imperfect world, she should exercise caution.

There is a neighborhood near mine that is known for gang activity, drugs, prostitution, you know, all the vices. Yeah, I've got every right to be out on any street at any time of day, even in this neighborhood. Now, knowing what goes on there, would it be wise for me just to drive around because I want to? No. Nothing can stop me, but it would still be a pretty stupid idea.

And if you went there and were assaulted it wouldn't be your fucking fault.

No, being raped is not like a flood. But for obvious reasons it is a very hot button issue that really had nothing to do with the original topic of this thread. I used the flood analogy as a silly ploy to divert the conversation from a sensitive issue. I guess you missed that part. No problem....

And it was a shitty one. As pointed out by everyone else in this thread.

No, none of that is alright. I've said so previously. All I said was that a woman should use good judgment in her actions, if she can control them. Being falling down drunk at a party to me is not good judgment. She has made herself very vulnerable. Not a good idea.

BUT NOT AN INVITATION TO RAPE HER. There is zero blame on her for her rape. None. Zero. Nada. Rien.

Huh???

You complained about it being black and white. And this is. There is NO case where a woman is complicit or to blame for her own rape. None. NEVER. The responsibility is ALWAYS on the rapist. ALWAYS. Tojours.


There is no gray area. It's rape. And until you stop blaming the victim, continue to go fuck yourself.

He does not deserve all of the blame, but he did walk into a situation that did easily escalate.

Any of the blame. None. He deserves no blame.

It's like picking a fight, then getting mad 'cause you got your @$$ kicked.

Unless this person's physical presence was the legal equivalent of 'fighting words' or a physical threat, then no, it's nothing at all like picking a fight.

And say ass or don't say it all. You're grown, if ignorant.