
06-23-2010, 01:44 PM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2003
Posts: 18,190
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Drolefille
But it's not in a PNM's interest report or ignore dirty rushing. A promised bid for them is a positive.
|
A promised bid is not positive.
Yes, if the bid is promised and they actually wind up getting a bd there, then it is.
But more often than not, the member doing the promising doesn't REALLY know if said PNM will receive a bid. She has no clue how matching will play out.
I've heard many times of PNMs being bid promised at Pref, and getting a bid to a different chapter. It's a very heartbreaking situation, as the PNM essentially thought she was guaranteed to be an XYZ on Bid Night.
Then there's always the indirect promising that some members do without realizing. Example: "Can't want to see you tomorrow!" Said member doesn't know if she WILL see her tomorrow, and that can be taken as a promise as well.
__________________
"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi
Lakers Nation.
|