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Originally Posted by 33girl
First off, no matter what he says, don't refer to it as a "dead chapter" - eek!! A better euphemism is closed or dormant.
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Or inactive. (And I wouldn't call those "euphemisms." Those are usually the proper terms.)
And also, don't say he "was" a Greek in college or "was" in a large national fraternity. He is still in that fraternity (unless he was expelled when his chapter's charter was pulled). Perhaps he needs to be reminded of that, and reminded that as an alumnus, his fraternity experience can extend far beyond his chapter.
Otherwise, co-sign 33girl.