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Originally Posted by flower78

I'm just afraid that it's not going to work out, and I have to decide by initiation which seems like it's just around the corner.

The only thing you can do is make the best effort you can to attend events, interact with girls (all of them, not just your class), and get to know them.

Another important piece of advice:

Don't be the girl who expects everyone to come up to her and talk to them, or waits for others to ask HER to hang out! That's not effort. Take initiative to talk to girls and make plans with them! You'll get to know so many people that way.

I find that alot of girls end up depledging because they totally expected everyone to come up to them and talk to them and want to hang out with them without making an effort to get to know anyone themselves.

Life just doesn't work that way. Friendship is a 2 way street. Don't depledge without making a sincere effort.